Tuesday, September 30, 2008
White Crookneck Cushaw
Monday, September 29, 2008
What to do on Saturday Night
While I helped the church with a garage sale, Byron and the girls worked around the house all day. Byron split the wood and made us a nice stack for our short winter. All of the rotten stuff and grass clippings were piled high for a Bonn fire.
Hmmmm...? Is this marshmallow burnt enough? Or do I need to burn it some more?
It was a perfect night for drawing by lantern, talking to Mama, looking at the stars, trying to spot bats (no luck), guessing why the crew boat visited the ship out back (to bring a river pilot?...Someone to the hospital?), trying to do cart wheels, playing motorboat....and....
having the bench all to yourself to contemplate......
Dirty feet and all. Then sleeping in the tent when you have a perfectly good bed a few yards away.
Cost $0
Memories Priceless
I'm convinced...The best things in life are credit free.
Saturday, September 27, 2008
What could be better than an unexpected gift?
Thursday, September 25, 2008
Abandoning Teenagers
I was the youth leader at our church for 8 years. I've seen every kind of manipulative teen you can imagine...also every kind of wimpy parent. Also I've seen parents stuck between uncooperative co parents or enabling Grandparents (the worst). Besides praying that 18 gets here before the child does something to destroy the family, some parents find themselves relatively helpless against this raging mass of hormonal self-absorbed destruction.
I can just see the wide-eyed huh look in the petulant brats eyes as their parents say, "Sorry, I have to drop you off so I don't kill you." That's it they're disarmed...no more weapons...no more threats....That's it! I'm sorry. I know I am cruel and heartless...hee hee...for thinking this is funny. But there are some teens that I just wish their parents could have done that too them. The only problem is, those teens probably wouldn't be the one's dropped off. They're that way usually because they have learned to manipulate their over indulgent loving parent.
Never would I drop off one of my girls, petulant or not. I'd just give them one of my looks and say, "That's what tail whippins' are for." They might roll their eyes, but they'd straighten up. Blame it on my Suuthin' upbringin'.
Wednesday, September 24, 2008
Spring in September?- Around the House and Gardens
Tuesday, September 23, 2008
They Wouldn't Consider Living Any Other Way
I was really disappointed that he didn't have any storeys of starvation and woe. No tales of furniture thrown out on the street as my great grandfather had to sell apples on a corner to scrape together enough cash to buy food for the youngsters. My Grandmother did love to tell me how, "It was just a different way of living." You gardened, raised animals, canned, mended, repaired,...basically they were self-sufficient and wouldn't have considered living any other way.
There were very few things that they bought from outside sources. Of course, as they grew older they too adapted to the more modern way of life. Amazingly enough here we are turning back to take a look at how they lived their lives. We are rediscovering what it means to be self-sufficient. In my case I am attempting to become mostly self-sufficient.
Sometimes I wish my Grandfather were here so I could ask him what he thought about all this. My Grandfather and I had many heated discussions as he was a Democrat and I decided at the age of eight I was a Reagan Republican. Here we have a whole generation where most of us wouldn't know the first thing about caring for ourselves if suddenly food couldn't be delivered to the store. In our case after Katrina we have experienced this. What if the military wasn't there to air drop MRE's and cases of water?
I don't begin to profess I know how we lost all the skills our grandparents took for granted, but I do have some suspicions. We are human and we are all susceptible if not careful to the temptations of humanity- greed, pride, laziness. The idea of something for nothing has always appealed to the basest side of human nature. No other generation has been advertised to like ours. Especially by the credit industry.
Credit companies repeated a lie often enough that now it is believed. I know many really good people who do not believe that life can be lived without debt. I myself have given into that philosophy in the past. Now I know it is possible. We are doing it. At first it was a great trial, but now we are getting the hang of it and it has become habit. If you don't have the money, you do without until you do. This is NOT always easy. Especially in our society of "have now pay later". Pay you do and then some.
We know the Bible says the borrower is a slave to the lender. This is just a basic fact. If you owe someone, they dictate what you must do with your money and time without even telling you. Debt is the greatest inhibitor of self-sufficient living. Debt in my opinion is also the greatest robber of peace.
Maybe I could rewrite the line in that Alabama song, "Somebody told us Wall Street fell, but we weren't in debt so we couldn't tell."
Monday, September 22, 2008
I'm Addicted
I bought this box of knit pattern cards when we were evacuated to Bessemer, Alabama from Anthropologie. Anthropologie is one of those stores that I derive immense inspiration from, but would never spend that kind of money on anything they sell. But this little box had the price printed right on the carton and so the price couldn't be jacked up...so I just had to have it.
It's such a challenge to get out each little card and figure out the stitches and steps to create my somewhat crooked swatches. I think I might tackle something useful one day. In the meantime I find knitting crooked little butterflies very relaxing.
Friday, September 19, 2008
Aren't Eggs Beautiful?
I couldn't decide which picture I like best so I posted all.
Thursday, September 18, 2008
Green in the Garden
Wednesday, September 17, 2008
Decorating With What You Love
Everyone's style is different from minimalist to ultra feminine and everything in between. There are certain things that are pleasing to me and create a happy peaceful vignette for me to look at. First you must identify what you love to look at. Personally I love nature, books (new and vintage), everyday items from the 40's to the 70's, vintage Pyrex, milkware, and magazines.
Decorating my home has been a fifteen year process. Byron and I slept on mattresses on a metal frame with old doors as a headboard for years until I found the perfect bedroom set. I still have the same sofa I bought the first year Byron and I were married, and I still love it. Simply because I will only buy that which I love. We made do with, less than what I wanted, hand me downs until we could afford some items.